Thursday, January 24, 2008

Country boys treat women equally..

..well emotionally. I have seen that fights between 'country' couples are a little different than the ones that occur around in suburban couples. In a country couple fight the woman when upset is left to herself without any consolation provided by the man. Just like how the man is left to himself when something upsetting is said or done to him. Very simply put because its is what I have observed. In this case, the woman and the man treat each other the same way, showing equality amongst both genders. At the same time although off topic, what "man" needs consolation right, he is a man for god sakes. On the other hand, in suburban couples, where I relate myself to, I assume the men to be more sensitive and understanding per se. A fight here is where a woman is upset over something said or done is consoled. A man takes her sadness and crying, in some cases, to his heart and feels bad and tries to do things in his reach to make it better. But, anything upsetting said or done to the man goes unconsoled. Because what "man" needs consoling anyways, he is a man for god sakes.
Why isn't the same kind of emotional equality given to both genders in this case? Maybe the women are the same everywhere, but the men differ. Or is it just the case of nice guys finish last no matter what the geographical setting it is.

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